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Month: October 2022

The Bog of Despond, Part 1 of 6 – Middle Recovery

The Bog of Despond, Part 1 of 6 – Middle Recovery

Discovery, disclosure, and polygraph are all terribly painful. However during that season, there can be hope for a better future. Also, we have a team of professionals on board to help us get to the other side. Often we’ve even been promised that if we make it through to the other side of disclosure, we’ll have a marriage far better than what we thought we had before Dday. Usually partners decide the new-and-improved relationship is worth the pain that accompanies…

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Guest Post: Brunette K

Guest Post: Brunette K

S Heart and I look forward to featuring stories from other partners. Time spent with those who get it has made all the difference! I am almost 6 months in since I first found out about G’s affair (affairs). The memories of how he treated me during that early window of time are what still haunt me the most. Yes, the affair still really stings, but it’s how cruel and mean he was to me in the entire process of…

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Hello Again & Shock

Hello Again & Shock

Hi Friends, I can’t believe I haven’t written since January! I think about you, our journeys, and the truths we share here often. I had a very busy Spring with work. Over the summer I got to teach some material that I love – not recovery/infidelity related. I enjoyed it tremendously. Fall is always busy for our family. Lots of hustle and bustle around here. But I’m glad to be back, and I want to tell you I have a…

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